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elementor - v3.16.0 - 20-09-2023 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Discu\u021bia despre consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt este o parte important\u0103 a oric\u0103rei rela\u021bii s\u0103n\u0103toase ori combina\u021bie spontan\u0103. Cea mai u\u0219oar\u0103 modalitate de a te asigura c\u0103 nimeni nu face ceea ce nu-\u0219i dore\u0219te.<\/span><\/p><p><strong>Cum pot vorbi despre consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt?<\/strong><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Uh, s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre ceea ce vrei \u0219i ce nu vrei \u0219i s\u0103 respec\u021bi limitele partenerului t\u0103u, nu e ceva de care s\u0103-\u021bi fie fric\u0103 sau s\u0103 crezi c\u0103 e ciudat. Gen n-ai de ce s\u0103-\u021bi faci griji. A consim\u021bi \u0219i a cere consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 clar dorin\u021bele \u0219i nevoile (\u0219i c\u0103 partenerii \u00ee\u0219i respect\u0103 reciproc limitele).\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bonus: vorbind despre ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti \u00een pat te poate face pe tine \u0219i pe partenerul t\u0103u s\u0103 v\u0103 sim\u021bi\u021bi mai excita\u021bi \u0219i mai respecta\u021bi.<\/span><\/p><p><b>A\u0219adar, cum ceri consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00centrebi: &#8220;Pot s\u0103 [aici zici exact ce ai pe suflet]?&#8221; sau &#8220;Vrei s\u0103 fac [aici zici exact ce ai pe suflet]?&#8221; sau \u201dE ok dac\u0103 [aici zici exact ce ai pe suflet]?\u201d \u2026\u0219i a\u0219tep\u021bi \u0219i ascul\u021bi r\u0103spunsul. Ah \u0219i neaparat s\u0103 fii atent la limbajul corpului \u0219i la tonul pe care-l are.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A\u0219a c\u0103 dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e &#8220;da&#8221; sau arat\u0103 clar c\u0103 este interesat(\u0103), atunci ai primit consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul. Iar dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e &#8220;nu&#8221; ori nu spune nimic sau spune da (dar pare nesigur(\u0103) sau inconfortabil(\u0103) \u0219i se \u00een\u021belege din tonalitate), atunci NU ai consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul. Po\u021bi verifica dac\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belegi sau nu e\u0219ti sigur spun\u00e2nd ceva de genul:\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 faci asta.E ok s\u0103 continui?&#8221;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;\u00cei ok dac\u0103 nu e\u0219ti interesat(\u0103). Putem face altceva sau altc\u00e2ndva. Ce p\u0103rere ai?&#8221;<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Niciodat\u0103, b\u0103i, dar gen niciodat\u0103, s\u0103 nu-\u021bi presezi partenerul s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva ce nu vrea s\u0103 fac\u0103 sau pare nesigur(\u0103). Las\u0103-l s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 este \u00een regul\u0103 dac\u0103 vrea s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103 sau s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva diferit.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Toat\u0103 lumea merit\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i respecte limitele. A fi presat s\u0103 faci lucruri sexuale nu este o senza\u021bie pl\u0103cut\u0103 \u0219i poate distruge complet o rela\u021bie, devenind una toxic\u0103 sau \u0219i mai r\u0103u abuziv\u0103 (dac\u0103 partenerul t\u0103u te preseaz\u0103 s\u0103 faci sex, gen)<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cum \u00eei zic c\u0103 \u201dn-am chef\u201d, \u201dnu vreau\u201d? Nume Prenume Titlu Discu\u021bia despre consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt este o parte important\u0103 a oric\u0103rei rela\u021bii s\u0103n\u0103toase ori combina\u021bie spontan\u0103. Cea mai u\u0219oar\u0103 modalitate de a te asigura c\u0103 nimeni nu face ceea ce nu-\u0219i dore\u0219te. Cum pot vorbi despre consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2nt? 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